Glossary

Lingam

Lingam is the Sanskrit word the menu uses for the tantra session as offered to a man; it follows the same slow structure and the same ladder.

In Sanskrit, lingam means a mark, a sign or a distinguishing feature. In Hindu tradition it is also the name of a well-known symbol of Shiva, and from that usage the word came to refer to the male body. Western tantric bodywork borrowed it, as it borrowed much of its vocabulary, and on a massage menu it has one plain meaning: the tantra session booked by, or for, a man.

What sets it apart on the menu

The distinction is one of name rather than of method. A lingam session keeps the structure that defines tantra: a slow start, breath as the measure of pace, a close that is not hurried. Buyers sometimes assume the word signals a different or faster technique; it does not. The name tells the office who the session is for.

Choosing the length

Because the tempo is the same, the lengths that suit tantra suit a lingam booking. Most first lingam bookings are placed at ninety minutes, EUR 270; two hours, at EUR 360, gives the opening and the close more room, and is what many men book once they have tried the shorter length. A first booking of either length is confirmed with half the price in advance: EUR 135 for ninety minutes, EUR 180 for two hours.

A first time

Men booking for the first time often worry about doing it wrong. There is no way to do it wrong. Nothing needs to be learned beforehand, and the therapist sets the pace from the start. Arriving rested, not rushed, and without a heavy meal helps more than any reading does.

The lingam massage guide answers the common questions, the service page gives the practical details, and the yoni entry covers the counterpart for women.

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